Summer Lovin'

[Jay Pique]

What's worse - to be unable to get who you want, or to get them and be
unable to make it work?

(better to have loved and lost....?)

Also - any tips on overcoming the whole "I wouldn't date any girl that
will have me" syndrome? How about the whole putting them on a
pedestal thing?

JP
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Still maturing. Thank god.

[pigo]

"Jay Pique" > wrote in message
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> What's worse - to be unable to get who you want, or to get them and be
> unable to make it work?

What do you mean unable to get the one you want? What's that?

> (better to have loved and lost....?)
>
> Also - any tips on overcoming the whole "I wouldn't date any girl that
> will have me" syndrome? How about the whole putting them on a
> pedestal thing?

Chick problems? There's always more where the last one came from.

[lal_truckee]

Jay Pique wrote:
> What's worse - to be unable to get who you want, or to get them and be
> unable to make it work?

What's worse? to get whom you want, make it work; and find out she
doesn't ski when snow season rolls around. Those summer romances are
dangerous - warm weather makes every sane person a little crazed ...

Always make your move during ski season, so you can test her off piste
before committment.

[Jay Pique]

On Wed, 30 Jul 2003 22:00:31 -0600, "pigo"
> wrote:

>
>"Jay Pique" > wrote in message
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>> What's worse - to be unable to get who you want, or to get them and be
>> unable to make it work?
>
>What do you mean unable to get the one you want? What's that?

I sort of agree - but that begs the question "what if you get what you
want all the time, but you still don't find "the one"? Strength in
one area can lay bare the insecurities of another...

>> (better to have loved and lost....?)
>>
>> Also - any tips on overcoming the whole "I wouldn't date any girl that
>> will have me" syndrome? How about the whole putting them on a
>> pedestal thing?
>
>Chick problems? There's always more where the last one came from.

More of what though? Do I really need more of the same? Women of a
certain caliber are rare, and the subcategory of those that I don't
**** off is but a fraction of that. I'd like to say that I'm just
looking for one with a good personality, but the reality is that I
want it all - looks, intelligence, all four limbs, you name it. I've
found the CoolChix pool to be somewhat limited in Summit, so I guess
I'm looking for ways to alienate fewer of those that qualify.

JP
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Laid bare.

[Jay Pique]

On Wed, 30 Jul 2003 21:14:49 -0700, The Real Bev
> wrote:

>Jay Pique wrote:
>>
>> What's worse - to be unable to get who you want, or to get them and be
>> unable to make it work?
>>
>> (better to have loved and lost....?)
>
>If you truly love her, let her go. If she loves you, she will return. If
>not, hunt her down and kill her.

Let her go? What if you don't even have her yet but you think you
could and you're not sure you want to suffer the pain that's most
likely to follow?

>> Also - any tips on overcoming the whole "I wouldn't date any girl that
>> will have me" syndrome? How about the whole putting them on a
>> pedestal thing?
>
>Just hang around for a while, I'm sure the local Expert will drop in to
>give you a few pointers...

Who's that? If it's Horvath tell him I'm no longer accepting his
collect calls. If it's Pigo, tell him that I'm waaay into birth
control so he need not fret.

JP
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Inquisitive.

[pigo]

"Jay Pique" > wrote in message
...

Well, I always found that when I went out *looking for it* is when I
found what I didn't really want. You'll find the best quality stuff when
it happens along when your just doing what you do.

[A. B. Normal]

"pigo" > wrote in
:

>
> "Jay Pique" > wrote in message
> ...
>> What's worse - to be unable to get who you want, or to get them and be
>> unable to make it work?
>
> What do you mean unable to get the one you want? What's that?

Dunno. But the "unable to make it work" part sounds like a job for the
little blue pill. :-)

[lal_truckee]

suds wrote:
> "Terd Fartingmor" > wrote in message
> ...
>
>
>>Sure. What do you want to know?
>>
>
>
>
> I had a coworker who informed that the waitresses at Hooters are harder to
> pick up than strippers. Is this true? ;^{)

Strippers are easy ...